Love Is Blind But the Lover Shouldn't Be - The Very Language Which Never Seizes to End

By Funom Makama

The topic of Love can never seize to end in terms of practical reality and human reasoning. Experiences of heart break and subsequent consequence of fear have made a lot of people say a lot of things about Love. What is love actually and why do people fall in it?

First of all, Love itself is true. There is nothing like true love. We often have this misconception and when we are deeply in it, we consider it true love. Does that mean there is false love? Love itself is love and anything above or below or beyond it is not love. It is pure and independent on its on and whoever is experiencing it is experiencing Love.

We often mistake love and the lover. A girl who was sobbing in the subway was approached by a young man to be consoled. She turned her very wet angered face towards the man as she screams "You men are heartless, I will never fall in love again!". This caught so many passengers' attention and then she walked away. Really! You will never fall in love again? And can you tell us why? Is it because your lovers have been hurting you or because love itself is mean to you? Most girls due to bad experiences proclaim celibacy out of frustration. You can never be a nun overnight and celibacy is a natural phenomenon which you have to be born with and not just acquired instantly in a moment. Why blame it on love? Love is kind and patient, never jealous, boastful, proud or rude. Love isn't selfish or quick tempered. It doesn't keep record of wrongs that others do, it rejoices in truth, but not in evil, it is always supportive, loyal, hopeful and trusting and Love never fails. Is this what someone will proclaim not to experience?

A lover may exhibit jealousy, pride or selfishness, but that doesn't mean its a criteria of him loving you. Its just simply his human cons. When we end up with the wrong partner, maybe due to our carelessness or insensitivity to both sides of the person, we blame it on Love. No my friends, Love is blind and this is very true. What does it mean? It means love has no boundaries in race, color, height, social class, taste, and any other physical features. That is to say, a cobbler can marry a bank manager, a Hispanic can marry an African, a woman of 183cm in height can madly be in love with a man who is just 164cm; and a person who is seen as the weirdest, most unattractive could be as well cherished, worshiped and adored by another individual. Love is truly blind, but does it just end there? Absolutely No! The lover shouldn't be. What does this mean? In as much as you can love anybody from any race, color or other features which may not be parallel to yours, you still need to be careful, watchful and alert is loving someone who is very compatible to you. You have the right to know what you want and who can suite you best, then fall in love with such a person. You do not rush love and end up with the wrong person then finally blame it on Love again-that is absurd. remember, Love is patient and you just have to be as you grow stronger in it. You cannot know an individual for 3 months and conclude on marrying them.What exactly do you think you know about the person? Or do you think you are so engrossed in love that it is simply enough for you to spend your life with such a person?

An accountant, due to how tedious his job was vowed not to marry another accountant. There was a particular lady in his working place he has been avoiding. He tried all he could with other ladies and things did not just work out. After like 4 years of trials upon trials, he finally came to terms with the fact that he likes the lady but just avoiding her. He got to know her and they became the best couples ever. He used his job as a yardstick of love (which is wrong) and he was lucky enough to still come back and meet her available for him. A lady once said, she loves basket ballers and all she wants is to date and marry one. She was fortunate to date about 4 of them within the space of 8 months and it was horrible for her. The same thing she detested (pride) was the major characteristics of all the Basket ballers she knew. Finally, she came to terms with the fact that most of them are not really what she thought character-wise, finally, she fell in love with someone who was 5cm shorter than she is and not an athletic person in anyway.

We lust after some category of people and misconstrue this with love. Lust is totally different and it is something that is temporary. If we find out that we have this sudden passion and attraction for a certain category of persons due to some physical quality, then we should check-mate such desires. In most cases it is the wrong desire which may be taken to be love. You cannot be rigid to the specification of whom you will love. This is what is informally called "poppy love" or "high school love". 'The guy must be tall, huge, very athletic, strong, from a Jewish home' etc. And the funniest thing is sometimes we carry too many specifications for one person that such a person do not even exist in the world. You cannot channel love to whomever you want, it is a natural feeling which just comes and you feel it for a person after a while of attraction. Poppy love is very dangerous and it is so ridiculous to see some Adults doing this. Love is not about been pretty, or been rich, or been spiritual or been honest. Yes, these may be added qualities of attraction, but it takes two to love and if two halves come together to form wholeness, there must be cohesion and a perfect fitting for them to blend. Don't you think?

Finally, you are urged to leave your heart open to whoever it may finally love, nevertheless do not be blind in choosing who is more compatible to you because if you get hurt, its definitely not the fault of Love but the lover (either one of them or both of them). Make things right and do what is necessary to compliment this wonderful, God giving gift called Love. It is actually blind, but you the lover should never be!

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Im Still In Love With My Ex

Im Still In Love With My Ex!

 By Jon Gallas

If you find yourself saying, “I'm still in love with my ex” you aren't alone. There are many who find themselves at the end of a long term romance or marriage still clinging to hope that they might bring it back. Just because it seems like things are darkest and that there is no hope doesn't mean that there isn't any. There is still a chance that what you had can come back even stronger. When you are saying “I'm still in love with my ex” and you want to get that love back it is going to have to come back stronger if it is going to last.

For those of you saying, “I'm still in love with my ex” you may have a desire to turn back the clock and bring back what was lost. Be careful what you ask for, you might just get it and have the same results.

Look carefully at the mistakes that was made in the past and find out not only why they were made, but why they were able to have the impact on your relationship they did. You need to be able to make a stronger foundation than you had before. You are going to have to try and start from ground zero. To get back together with the one you love, you are going to have to try and start all over again. Just find a way to do it better. Tell yourself, "I'm still in love with my ex, but I want it to be better than before."

Try re-establishing a friendship. Take it slow. If your ex feels like you are trying to make things like they were, they may be resistant to it. Don't push things, just let things take their course. If the two of you are supposed to be together, it will happen. Just let it happen naturally.

Think positively about it. Don't let your ex see you crying or depressed about it. You want to try and make it look like you are a joy to come back to. If your ex sees that you are walking around depressed, they may decide that they don't want to have that in their lives. If they see that for you life has gone on and you are happy they may want to join you in your happiness.

Try to think of what type of person you would like to be with. Do you think that they would want to be with that type of person as well? People want to be with happy people who can brighten their day and make them smile. People want to be with someone who makes them feel that they have a purpose and that they aren't alone. Try to be someone that makes someone feel like that. Make your ex feel special by just being an encouraging friend.

If you make yourself valuable to your ex and are able to make them feel valuable you may have a chance to bring back lost love. You may also be making a foundation that will last forever. It is a good thing to say “I'm still in love with my ex.” It is an even better thing to try and make the foundation of that love stronger.

Starting Over Win Your Love Back

Starting Over Win Your Love Back!

By Jon Gallas

Win your love back. It slipped away before you had a chance to realize what was happening. It seems like everything happened so quickly, like a tornado that came out of nowhere and destroyed everything that the two of you had worked so hard at building. The results were devastating. Now you are left walking through the rubble trying to find out if there is anything worth saving. To win your love back is going to be a huge challenge.

To try and win your love back, first look to see if there is anything able to be salvaged.  Look through all that remains, take a hard look at everything and see the damage that was done. It could be that the damage due to the break up was too much and there really isn’t anything left to save. Hopefully, this is not the case but, unfortunately, it is true many times.

Also take a critical look at everything and see if trying to win your love back is even something that you want to even try and do. Winning your love back is going to be hard work and you just went through an exhausting time in your life.

Does it make sense to try and put these pieces of the failed romance and/or marriage back together? Will you just be banging your head against the wall? Do they even want to try and work with you or even want to win your love back? Ask yourself these hard questions. It could save you a lot of added and unnecessary grief.

Now, once you have decided that it is worth it to try and win your love back, clean up. Get rid of all the things that cluttered up your life and made it difficult. This is a great chance to go in and take only what was good about your love and leave behind the bad stuff. If there was something that complicated things between the two of you, leave it behind. You really need to focus your energy on building on the more solid foundations of your love.

What was it that made your love special? What were the best things about your love? What was it that made it special and really makes you want to win your love back? Focus on these things and use them as the cornerstone and foundation of winning your love back.

One mistake that many make when they want to rebuild a relationship is that they try and rebuild it exactly the way it was before it started falling apart. The truth is, if it wasn’t strong enough to withstand the storms that came the first time, it won’t be strong the next time. Try to build it better than it was before. Don’t live in the past, build on the good things and leave behind the things that made what you have weak enough to be destroyed. Win your love back and make it stronger than ever before.

Valentine's Day Romance

Valentine's Day Love!

By Lulie Swanepoel

Love is one of the strongest emotions in the human experience. This strong feeling for another person is often hard to describe and difficult to express, but there are certain occasions, Valentine's Day in particular, when displays of affection are called for.

Couples around the world celebrate Valentine's Day, also known as St. Valentine's Day, each year on the 14th of February. This romantic occasion and celebration of love gives people the opportunity to show their feelings of love and affection for one another. Couples aside, this celebration of romance is also the one day where secret admirers and singletons can make their affections known to an unsuspecting beloved.

As a symbol of one's affection, sending flowers, gifts or a card has become part of the Valentine's Day tradition, which in itself has a rather mysterious romantic history as one would expect.

The history of St. Valentine
There are numerous legends as to who Saint Valentine was and why we celebrate Valentine's Day. Today St. Valentine's Day contains remnants of both Roman and Christian traditions and only three of the saints connected to Valentine's Day are recognised by the Catholic Church. All of these men were known as Valentine or Valentinus and were martyred.

The one legend tells of a priest known as Valentine who served during Emperor Claudius II's rule in Rome during the third century. Claudius who was building his army of soldiers banned marriage as he felt that single men made for better soldiers. Valentine recognised the unfairness of this and continued marrying young lovers in secret. When Claudius became aware of this he ordered that the priest be put to death.

Through the ages Valentine's Day evolved. The acknowledgement of the first St. Valentine's message belongs to a young Frenchman, the Duke of Orleans, who desperately longed for his wife while being incarcerated in the Tower of London during the 15th Century. Today sixty of the romantic notes written to his wife are displayed in the British Museum.

Over two hundred years later flowers became fashionable when the daughter of King Henry IV of France threw a party honouring St. Valentine. All the men who attended were asked to bring a bouquet of flowers to give to the woman they have chosen to bring as a Valentine companion.

Be my Valentine
Today the red rose is regarded as the ultimate symbol of Valentine's Day. The rose evokes feelings of passion that not even Venus, the goddess of love could resist, declaring it her favourite flower.

Florists around the world acknowledge that the ideal Valentine's gift is a bouquet of red roses adorned with the Baby's Breath flower.

However, giving red roses to show your admiration is not set in stone. There are a wide variety of flowers you can consider including orchids, lilies, tulips and of course roses of another colour. A mixture of flowers beautifully designed and styled or a tailor-made bouquet that would reflect your partner's taste would be perfect!

Another Valentine's Day favourite is of course chocolates. The ideal Valentine's Day gift would then surely be a beautiful bouquet of flowers with a box of chocolates but for a promise of things to come, delivered at your loved one's door step by your florist with a bottle of champagne, often referred to as the lover's drink.

Ultimately, after centuries of romance, the way to your loved one's heart is still with well sought-out Valentine's Day flowers and a gift to show your feelings of love and devotion on this happy day.

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Falling in Love this Valentine's Day

mathematics of  love!

By Paul Selibio

It is Valentine's Day again! Aside from anniversaries and birthdays, Valentine's Day is a special occasion when you think of thoughtful ideas of expressing love to your partner. You always want to make sure that your partner deserves the best. And as early as possible, you want to get ready and plan for the perfect way of surprising your loved one.

Everyone wants to be loved and wants to express this in symbolic ways. Who can argue with that? And just as the credit card bills and other finances from the Christmas holidays are just about half settled, it's another time of the year when you could not help but spend more for your partner. And so worries pile up during the love month.

But since Valentine's Day come so soon after Christmas, here are some tips of how to handle your financial worries during this time.

1.Look for Cheap Valentine Ideas

Even if your gift may not be that expensive, what matters is how that gift can touch and bring joy to the heart. There are other ways that you can consider as gifts to your partner during Valentine, if you are on a limited budget. Here are some:

-Why not take a day leave and do the household chores for your wife? You will save her a day off during the weekend from all these house stuffs. This will be your cheap and unique way of giving her the gift of free time.

-Instead of having dinner in a restaurant, work your way to the kitchen and take charge. You can even bake your own Valentine cake. Set the mood in the table with a candlelit dinner and a bottle of champagne.

-Make personalized gifts. You can craft your own Valentine card. Bring out that artistic talent and do your own Valentine projects.

-Though the Christmas holidays comes first before February, you can think ahead and save for a Valentine gift. You can even buy one under a good Christmas deal and save some few bucks for a Valentine dinner.

-You can also save a little of that bonus for this occasion. You just need to anticipate all these expenses so that you would not end up messing up with your budget.

2.Scout for Other Sources of Budget

Who would not want to give expensive gifts especially for the special someone in your life? This is just once a year when love is the prime reason in celebrating this special holiday. And as much as we want to avoid problems with our budget, there are times that we just fall short for these expenses. Yes, it is true that it all boils down to the sincere thought of giving. But going on an extra mile with your effort of giving nothing but the best would not hurt.

There are other ways of getting enough funds so that you can celebrate a perfect Valentine's Day with your loved one. You need not worry about the money needed to help you with the numerous creative ways you may have thought of spending the love month. You can apply for a loan to have enough funds for the Valentine's Day.

There is no other easiest way of getting your loan approved than payday loans. With shorter processing period and lesser requirements, this will surely help you meet the expenses for the Valentine. And since credit rating does not matter with the approval of your payday loan, you don't even need to worry about the possible problems left by the Christmas shopping on your finances.

If you want a bigger amount, you can apply for other personal loans. This can cover whatever expenses you have other than the Valentine spending. You can even resort to giving your partner her greatest wish that you may have failed to give during the holidays. What about a romantic vacation? Apply for a loan and surprise her this Valentine's Day. There is no excuse for giving what is best during the Valentine's Day. Valentine is the perfect time to fall in love over and over again without worrying about falling short of your budget.

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Free Valentine Ecard and Free Valentine Ecards

By Christian N

A free valentine ecard is an incredibly romantic way to let your loved one know how you feel about her. Free valentine ecards can be anything from sentimental to funny depending on how you want your loved one to respond to you card. A free valentine ecard is a great add on gift for Valentine's Day. It is a way to let your significant other know that you truly love them. Free valentine ecards can be used in many different ways and for several purposes. It all depends on which purpose works best for you.

First of all, a free valentine ecard can be used for the obvious; to wish them a happy Valentine's Day. It is fun to send the one you love a free valentine ecard so that they can receive something extra from you at work or at school. Free valentine ecards are available for the purpose of encouragement and love. They are available all year round but there are more free valentine ecards during the actual holiday than any other day of the year. This works well also because it is the time when you most want to send cards to celebrate Valentines Day.

Another way you can use a free valentine ecard is to do something special such as purposing. Now this is a really tricky thing to do with a free valentine ecard. Before you decide to purpose this way, make sure that this is something that your future fiance would appreciate. If they would much more prefer the traditional method, then save the free valentine ecards for a different occasion. But if you do use the free valentine ecards to purpose, then make sure that you find the perfect one for your future spouse. Pick out all of their favorite colors and write a romantic statement on the card.

Finally, realize that free valentine ecards are about love. True love comes from the Lord and cannot be represented from any free valentine ecard. It must come straight from the heart. The Lord is love so let him teach you what true love is and all the tools that come along with loving each other as much as you love him. "Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God, and everyone that loveth is born of God and knoweth God. He that loveth not knoweth not God for God is love." (1 John 4:7-8)

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10 Valentine Gifts Women Love

10 Valentine Gifts Women Love!

By William Smith

Finding the perfect Valentine gift for the woman in your life can be a daunting task.  To help you out, we've searched the internet to find our top 10 picks for Valentine's Day.  From flowers to jewelry to a romantic weekend at a bed & breakfast, you can simply surf the internet to buy or find all the information you need to make this a perfect Valentine's Day for the woman you love.

1)  Fresh Flowers - Flowers are still the most popular gift at Valentine's Day.  Of course, it is also the most expensive time of the year to buy flowers, particularly roses.  Still, flowers remain a classic option and one that is always well received.  Try a local florist for guaranteed delivery, or one of the many online retailers if you will be apart this Valentine's Day.

2)  Chocolate - Chocolate is a close second to flowers, and for good reason.  Many women crave chocolate, and Godiva (  rel=nofollow http://www.godiva.com) is the ultimate indulgence.  When in doubt, buy a variety chocolate gift pack that will allow her to sample a different treat each time.  She'll enjoy the mystery of what's inside each tasty treat, and be dreaming about the next one.

3)  Perfume - Think of perfume as "flowers in a bottle."  A pleasing smell is a powerful aphrodisiac, and a carefully selected scent will make her feel special.  Perfume is also nice because the gift lives on for several months, and she'll think of you each time she sprays on your wonderful gift.  Ask your female friends what scents are popular this year, or sneak a peek in her magazines to see what perfumes are being advertised.

4)  Spa/Massage Gift Certificate - For a truly memorable experience, give her a trip to the spa.  Woman love to feel pampered and a massage or spa treatment is a Valentine gift that will relax and elevate her mood.

5)  Romantic Dinner At Home - If your wife or girlfriend normally does all the cooking, surprise her with a home-cooked meal.  If you're new to the kitchen, don't try anything too ambitious.  Pick some of her favorite foods and find some easy recipes to make.  Don't worry if your meal isn't perfect, because for this gift the old adage, "it's the thought that counts," is definitely true.

6)  Jewelry - Women love jewelry, especially when it's received as a gift on a special occasion.  Price is always a factor, but also consider getting something personal (e.g., a dolphin pendant for the ocean lover) or personalized (with your names and date) to make sure this Valentine gift is unforgettable.

7)  Teddy Bear (  rel=nofollow http://www.vermonteddybear.com) - Nothing says cute and cuddly like a teddy bear.  The teddy bear has changed a lot since you had one as a kid.  Now, there are many different styles, varieties, and colors.  Find one just right and she'll thank you for your thoughtfulness.

8)  Bouquet Of Heart Shaped Cookies (  rel=nofollow http://www.gourmet-cookie-bouquets.com) - Cookies are always a "sweet" gift, and heart-shaped gourmet cookies make a great Valentine gift.  Personalize the cookies with your own special message to let her know how you feel.

9)  Chocolate Covered Strawberries (  rel=nofollow http://www.aagiftsandbaskets.com) - Strawberries are the perfect Valentine's Day fruit - red, heart-shaped and sweet.  We already know how women feel about chocolate, so combine the two and you've got an unforgettable Valentine's Day gift.  Chocolate covered strawberries are normally shipped via overnight air for maximum freshness, so these delectable treats also make a great gift for the procrastinator.

10)  Romantic Weekend Get-Away - Nothing rekindles romance like a little time away from it all with your Valentine.  For a truly romantic weekend, try a bed-and-breakfast someplace special (  rel=nofollow http://www.bnbfinder.com to find a bed & breakfast).  Many bed and breakfasts offer Valentine's Day or romance packages, so it's best to reserve this date far in advance.  If you can't get away during Valentine's Day, you can always make the reservation by February 14 and give her a special card telling her about your future romantic escape.

Valentine's Day gifts can be difficult, but with a little planning and insight in your wife or girlfriend's preferences, you can find her a memorable gift this year.  You could even chose a different Valentine gift from this list and be covered for the next 10 years!

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10 Valentines Gifts For Your Love!

10 Valentines Gifts For Your Love
By Kate S

Valentines Day is on February 14th. It is a special day to express our love to the special person in our lives. You can do this by sending your love a Valentine gift. This article provides ideas on Valentines day gifts.

a. Valentine Gift Basket:
Valentine baskets are great gifts for your sweetheart. A popular basket comes with a beautiful arrangement of delicacies for an evening of romance and dining, accented with roses and completed with massage oil and votive candles. Inside the wicker basket are chocolate covered cherries, shortbread cookies, Mia Amore pasta, sun dried roasted tomatoes, chocolates, cheese, and a hard cover book of romance. This romantic gift is ideal for sharing with your special someone, and will create Valentine memories you two will always hold dear.

b. Valentine Gift Pail:
Alternatively, you can send a message of love with an unique red gift pail, wrapped around by the long arms of a charming bear couple. The teddy bears are embroidered with the saying "I love you this much!" They are stuffed with hugs and good wishes and surrounded by sweet treats of chocolate covered cookies, Ghirardelli squares, old fashioned fudge, chocolate hearts, and Jelly Belly beans. This gift pail can be sent to your boyfriend or girl friend.

c. Valentine Gift Tower:
A popular gift tower consists of a soft and cuddly plush bear with a three-piece tower of sweets, including milk chocolate pretzels, white frosted pretzels and milk chocolate Ghirardelli squares. This is a wonderful gift to express your love to friends, family and special loved ones.

d. Valentines Gifts For Him:
For your boyfriend or husband, you can send him a gift basket with a love message envelope. He can open the envelope and enjoy the romantic treats. He will find an adorable teddy bear holding a heart filled with his favorite truffles and a lovely Champagne candle, and many other sweet treats,... and a love coupon book. This would be a great basket for your Valentine.

e. Romantic Gift Basket - Valentines Gifts For Her:
You can win over your lover's heart by sending her a romantic gift basket. A popular basket consists of a beautiful gold chest filled with romantic candle gift set, frosted glass votive candle holder, sensual chocolate body paint, assorted chocolate, almond body butter massage lotion, and a Love and Romance book from the heart. She will be impressed with your elegant taste when you send her this romantic gift basket.

f. Romantic Massage Gift Basket:
A romantic massage will be treasured by your valentine. She will long remember the special treats in this lovely basket: massage oil, an acrylic massager, a massage booklet. chocolates, cookies, and a chocolate fondue kit to say I love you in good taste.

g. Spa Gift Baskets:
Spa gifts are designed especially for women. Rejuvenate someone special with a gift hamper full of relaxing spa products, including body butter, an enchanted CD of soft piano and string music, cucumber moisturizing body lotion, moisturizing body gel, terry cloth makeup and shower headband, vanilla herbal lemon tea, and terry cloth bath slippers to make her feel special. When the bath and body products are gone, she can use the handy hamper with lid for storage. Treat your sweetheart with this revitalizing gift.

h. Chocolate Bouquet:
This chocolate bouquet consists of 6 full size milk chocolate bars that create a "vase" while 20 fun size chocolates of assorted varieties make up a bouquet. This unique gift can be sent to chocolate lovers of all ages.

i. Valentines Gift Basket For Kids:
This children's basket is filled with fun activities and treats to eat. Your little valentine will find a teddy bear with heart patches, coloring book, candy filled potion bottle with mini message, bubbles, candy bracelet, 3 marshmallow cream heart, checkers game set, marshmallow heart peep, gummy treats, Hershey Kisses exchange bag, and candies.

j. Red Roses:
Fresh, stunning and fragrant red roses will sure delight your sweetheart. Send these roses by themselves or send them to accompany other gifts.

In summary, express your love to someone special with a Valentine gift. You can choose from Valentine gift basket, Valentine gift pail, gift tower, romantic gift basket, romantic massage gift basket, spa gift baskets, red roses, and Valentines basket for kids. Send Valentines day gift to your love, and show him or her how much you care this Valentines Day.

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Valentine’s Day Jokes

Valentine’s Day Jokes!

By Shawn Leblon

If you are looking for a few good laughs on Valentine's Day,
then some Valentine's Day jokes are just right for you. Laughter
is always a good medicine and bet you know it. So if you are
trying to bridge a gap with someone you love this Valentine's
Day, try doing it with a few jokes. The Valentine's Day jokes
are a unique blend of love and fun and will surely make your
beloved laugh, grin and smile. And if you are nursing a broken
heart, then shun those tears because the Valentine's Day jokes
are here to cheer up all troubled souls. Celebrate loving
yourself on Valentine's Day with the help of these Valentine's
Day jokes. Valentine's Day is a day to be happy, to feel loved
and pampered. So spread the joy around with the help of these
jokes listed below.

Shocking Love

A little girl asked her grandpa if it would be very wrong of
her to send a card to Osama on Valentine's Day. The old man was
visibly shocked and asked her why she wanted to do so.

“If I send him a card on Valentine's Day, then he might think
that I am not bad, and that little kids are not bad. So he might
stop hating us and gradually stop hating others and also stop
killing. Then he can come to us and say that he loves us”
replied the little girl.

Her grandpa was really touched by this thought of his
granddaughter and went to give her an appreciative hug, just
when she said: “then when he comes out in the open, the army can
shoot him !”

Business as Usual

At the post office Roger noticed a middle aged, stout and bald
man with many heart-shaped envelopes. He was sticking ‘love’
stamps on each envelope and was spraying them with perfume.
Obviously curious, Roger went up to him and asked him what he
was doing. With a big grin, the man replied: “I'm sending 5000
Valentine’s Day cards signed “guess who”. Roger was taken
aback—“But why on earth ?” The man replied—“You see I'm a
divorce lawyer !”

Chocolaty Wish

Six year old Sandy and her mom Julia both loved chocolates. On
Valentine's Day, Sandy and her dad gave Julia a big box of
chocolates. After a few days, Sandy began to eye the chocolates,
hoping to pop a few when no one was looking. She quietly got
into the kitchen and just as she was about to reach for the box,
her mom said, “If you touch it you have to eat it.” Sandy’s eyes
lit up and she patted her hands over all the chocolates. “Does
that mean I get to eat it all now ?”

Some Crazy Valentine's Day One-Liners:

“Did I tell you about that wonderful beaded dress I almost
bought for you ? But then I thought you’ll look great without
it, just the same.”

“This restaurant’s terrible, but it was the only place offering
50% off on Valentine's Day dinner, so I had to bring you here.”

“I know you don’t eat stuff with faces, that’s why I ordered
turkey legs.”

“It’s been much better ever since I accepted that my
Valentine's Day dates would never be smart.”

“My ex and I came here for our first date. Isn’t that nostalgic
?”

“Weren’t you the geekiest person in college ? How did you do a
makeover ?”

“Oh ! You’re having that ? Excuse me, got to run to the ATM.”

“Thank god I listened to my friends, or else I would never have
called you back.”

About the Author: Sean Carter writes on holidays, Valentine's
Day and world events. He is a writer with special interest in
ecard industry and writes for http://123greetings.com. He is an
active blogger at Valentines Day Blog.

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Make Valentine’s Day Hot

Make Valentine’s Day Hot!

By Santo Del Monico

Valentine’s Day is the day of lovers. However, not everyone is
in a relationship each year when Valentine’s Day rolls around.

This does not mean these people have to spend the day alone at
home. Just because you don’t have a significant other on
Valentine’s Day does not mean you can’t have a great Valentine’s
Day.

Hang with a buddy on Valentine’s Day d can be a wonderful way
to spend the day. You and your friend can do all sorts of things
to celebrate Valentine’s Day and keep both of you from feeling
left out on this holiday.

Some ideas:
- Going out to the movies can be a great way for friends to
spend Valentine’s Day. This is a great place to meet other
single women by the way.

- Go bowling. Again Single women have the same agenda you do.
Not to be alone on Lover day, so they might just be in the same
spots you are.

- If there is a new restaurant in town you want to try or a
place you have always wanted to try, why not try it on
Valentine’s Day.

- The charitable approach.If you and your friend are looking
for something to do on Valentine’s Day, try volunteering to
serve dinner in a homeless shelter that night. Holidays can be
difficult times at shelters because there may be fewer
volunteers than usual.

- Netflix it.Finally, if you and your friend are looking for a
great way to spend Valentine’s Day, you might consider renting a
bunch of movies and ordering a pizza.

So Valentine's Day is not something to get all bummed about
because you are not "hooked up".Have fun with your pal and the
gals tend to flock when you aren ot so needy anyway.

About the Author: Valentino Torher is a syndicated Romance
writer and contributes to http://www.valentinesdayday.com/

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Valentine’s Day Quotes

Valentine’s Day Quotes!

By Shawn Leblon

Quote this—Love, love and love alone is what we need on
Valentine's Day ! So being a little fancy on Valentine's Day is
always advisable. So substitute your words with special
Valentine's Day quotes to sweep your beloved off his/ her feet.
Quotes are witty, subtle, short and sweet and can express your
love in the perfect way. Quotes are often dependable as not only
are they rich in the wisdom of noted authors, but they are also
poetic and artistic. Quotes on Valentine’s Day speak volumes as
they can convey your emotions in a few words, rather than in
long, meticulous verses. Quotes often speak indirectly and that
can be of great help too—if you are embarrassed to blurt out
your feelings directly, just do it with the help of some
Valentine’s Day quotes ! So go ahead and flatter your beloved
with some of the best Valentine's Day quotes that you will find
below.

Doubt that the stars are fire, doubt that the sun doth move,
doubt truth to be a liar, but never doubt I love.
~William Shakespeare

Your words are my food, your breath is my wine.
You are everything to me.
~Sarah Bernhardt

Through all eternity to thee
A joyful song I'll raise,
For oh! Eternity is too short
To utter all thy praise.
~Joseph Addison

I love you not only for what you are,
but for what I am when I am with you.
~Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Grow old along with me
The best is yet to be.
~Robert Browning

The simple lack of her is more to me than others' presence.
~Edward Thomas

We are all born for love.
It is the principle of existence, and its only end.
~Benjamin Disraeli

Love bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.
~The Bible : 1 Corinthians

Love is friendship set on fire.
~Jeremy Taylor

Love comforteth like sunshine after rain.
~William Shakespeare

The torch of love is lit in the kitchen.
~French Proverb

One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life:
that word is love.
~Sophocles

Love is the master key which opens the gates of happiness.
~Oliver Wendell Holmes

You don't marry someone you can live with,
you marry the person who you cannot live without.
~Author unknown

Of all the earthly music, that which reaches farthest into
heaven is the beating of a truly loving heart.
~Henry Ward Beecher

About the Author: Sean Carter writes on holidays, Valentine's
Day and world events. He is a writer with special interest in
ecard industry and writes for http://123greetings.com. He is an
active blogger at Valentines Day Blog.

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Valentines Day - Gift A Special Gift To A Special One

Valentines Day - Gift A Special Gift To A Special One!

By Adam Jaylin

Valentines Day is often also called lovers day, as they get to express their affection and love with romantic gifts, flowers, etc. to their loved ones. Not only can you gift to your sweetheart but also to friends and family members. This day is popular in almost all parts of the world and is celebrated by all. Youngsters wait for this day as this is a special day for them and they celebrate it in the name of love and romance. Valentines Day has become the day of love and affection and the day of exchanging gifts between lovers and loved ones. This day you can express your innermost feelings beautifully to your soulmate, anyway you wish to. You can just sing out some beautiful romantic songs or gift flowers to your sweetheart.

Valentines Day is always being related to love, romance and passion. It is considered as the most preferable time for showing your feelings and doing something special for your lover. This day is a special day to show how much you care for them. You can share a kiss, a gift or a hug or spend a romantic time with your lover. Tell your lover in different ways that you love him the most.

Think about unique gift ideas for that special one in your life. Ladies love to be pampered. So gift her something that she likes the most. Surprise her by taking her to a romantic place and have a romantic dinner. This can make her feel really special. If you are tired of gifting flowers, you can gift her chocolates, jewellery or accessories. A perfect day would be a romantic lunch followed by a romantic movie. Show your true feelings of love by choosing a gift that would please her. The more unique gift, the more impressed would be your lover. Remember, this can put some spark into your relationship.

You can make this day a lot more special by making him or her feel special. Think of some fabulous gifts. Take her on a holiday or a vacation trip. Go to a romantic place and express your feelings to one another.

Valentines Day gives you a perfect opportunity to show your lover that how much you love and care for each other. Gift them some memorable and romantic gifts and celebrate this day of love. A wonderful gift could be beautiful stuffed toys like teddy bears, cookies or red roses. These gifts can help to make this day memorable for a lover.

A fabulous gift would be a latest mobile phone with a fascinating design and looks. These phones are a complete package of impressive features and high-end performance. These phones offer a high quality mega pixel camera allowing you to capture the most special moments spent together. The outstanding musical features come with a built in MP3 player and FM radio. With the Bluetooth wireless technology feature, you exchange the best love songs with your partner. You can even browse the net and download romantic wallpapers, love ringtones, love themes and lots more.

Just check out the online phone shops to purchase a handset for your loved one. Shop for the coolest gizmo and get offers like free line rental, free gifts and even free handsets. So gift your Valentine the most impressive mobile phone and share an intimate bond with her. By gifting a mobile phone, you can show that you want to stay in touch with her. There cannot be a better gift than a mobile handset loaded with amazing features and stunning looks. With the high-end mega pixel camera, you can capture those wonderful moments spent together with your loved one. Select your desired handset from Sony Ericsson, Samsung, Nokia, Motorola phones available online. .

A mobile phone with the latest features and functionalities can surely impress your Valentine. Wonderful features like internet, email, music and radio would appeal your lover. This would be a unique gift for someone you want to show your love.

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Valentine's Day Romantic Ideas

Valentine's Day Romantic Ideas!

By Sean Carter

It's Valentine's Day and could the mood get more romantic? It is the time for togetherness, the time to cherish the company of the person who makes your life more special and it is the time to love and be loved. So go ahead and do everything you can to make it a special and memorable Valentine's Day. In case you are a little out of ideas, check out this list of romantic ideas for your Valentine's Day. Club these up with your own romantic ideas and have an unforgettable Valentine's Day. So here come some Valentine's Day romantic ideas for you and your sweetheart to take up:

Everyone remembers their first date, right? So recreate that first date you had with your partner on Valentine's Day and see the sparks fly. Just do it all over again--from what you wore, where you went, what you talked about, etc. This will literally be a romantic walk down memory lane and the thrill of reliving a new romance will also be there. So why not?

Write a self-created note to your beloved on Valentine's Day. And if you are a woman, wear dark lipstick and put kiss-prints all over it. If you are a man, spray some of your daily body cologne on it. This will not only make your beloved feel pampered, but it will also add a tremendous boost to all the romance in the air on February 14.

Here's another of the fun romantic ideas for Valentine's Day that you can try out this year. Keep a tab on all the places your partner generally visits in a day. Leave a love note in each such place so that your sweetheart discovers a note everywhere he/ she lays hand on. For instance, leave a note in the fridge, under the plate, in the purse or wallet, in between the dollar bills and so on.
This next Valentine's Day romantic idea is a little time-taking, but a winner for sure. Make a makeshift restaurant on your terrace and send a cute invite to your partner. Cook or get all the favorite dishes of your beloved's choice and have a feast to remember. When the meal is over, get a bill and write on it: "salad price: one hug, pasta price: two kisses, desserts price: five kisses" to get your love beaming in all the innovation.

Now if you are a true romantic, then this idea is just the thing for you. Leave a trail of heart-shaped candies wrapped in red from the door to the bed of your partner. Then write a note like "My heart is where you are, my dear" and leave it on the bed. Make sure not to be there in the house when he/ she steps in.

Now if you're looking for some simple and sweet romantic ideas for Valentine's Day, check this out. On Valentine's Day, call your partner at work several times and tell him/ her how great he/ she looks and how lucky you are to be with him/ her. A compliment is as romantic as any other physical gesture. And it's all that you beloved craves for each moment, more so on Valentine's Day.

Or you may also organize a day-out on Valentine's Day with your sweetheart. Blindfold him/ her and drive to a place where you have already set up a blanket, candies, flowers and food of his/ her choice. Gifted a day like this, your valentine will gladly admit that you are the greatest romantic in the world.

Here's a fun idea to pep up the romance on Valentine's Day--buy a lottery ticket and attach a note on it--"I hit a jackpot when I met you". Hide it with the other Valentine's gifts and give it to your partner as you wish a 'Happy Valentine's Day' or 'be my Valentine' or 'will you marry me'.
Another of the irresistibly romantic ideas for your Valentine's Day--On February 14, you can replace the light bulbs in your bedroom with candles. Candles are a Valentine's Day favorite for their warm snug glow and romantic effusion, so they might just help you get into a romantic mood.
And if you are alone on Valentine's Day, you needn't worry because here's a fun idea for you too. Decorate your house with flowers, take along bubble bath, have some delicious food and watch your favorite movie. The quality time you spend with yourself will be the perfect Valentine's Day treat for you, and why not !

So try out these Valentine's Day romantic ideas and have a memorable time with your valentine. Remember to pack up your work early on February 14 and head straight home or wherever your beloved is to enjoy all the romance this Valentine's Day ! And here are some funnily helpful tips for you to bear in mind as you date full throttle on Valentine's Day:

Useful Tips For Your Valentine's Day Date
Make sure that you don't give the same Valentine's Day card as last year.
Don't leave your date alone with your folks.
Don't blow your nose.
Do not give her an engagement ring you got for someone else.
Don't get your partner a gift he/ she may be allergic to.

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10 Valentines Gifts For Your Love

By Kate S

Valentines Day is on February 14th. It is a special day to express our love to the special person in our lives. You can do this by sending your love a Valentine gift. This article provides ideas on Valentines day gifts.

a. Valentine Gift Basket:
Valentine baskets are great gifts for your sweetheart. A popular basket comes with a beautiful arrangement of delicacies for an evening of romance and dining, accented with roses and completed with massage oil and votive candles. Inside the wicker basket are chocolate covered cherries, shortbread cookies, Mia Amore pasta, sun dried roasted tomatoes, chocolates, cheese, and a hard cover book of romance. This romantic gift is ideal for sharing with your special someone, and will create Valentine memories you two will always hold dear.

b. Valentine Gift Pail:
Alternatively, you can send a message of love with an unique red gift pail, wrapped around by the long arms of a charming bear couple. The teddy bears are embroidered with the saying "I love you this much!" They are stuffed with hugs and good wishes and surrounded by sweet treats of chocolate covered cookies, Ghirardelli squares, old fashioned fudge, chocolate hearts, and Jelly Belly beans. This gift pail can be sent to your boyfriend or girl friend.

c. Valentine Gift Tower:
A popular gift tower consists of a soft and cuddly plush bear with a three-piece tower of sweets, including milk chocolate pretzels, white frosted pretzels and milk chocolate Ghirardelli squares. This is a wonderful gift to express your love to friends, family and special loved ones.

d. Valentines Gifts For Him:
For your boyfriend or husband, you can send him a gift basket with a love message envelope. He can open the envelope and enjoy the romantic treats. He will find an adorable teddy bear holding a heart filled with his favorite truffles and a lovely Champagne candle, and many other sweet treats,... and a love coupon book. This would be a great basket for your Valentine.

e. Romantic Gift Basket - Valentines Gifts For Her:
You can win over your lover's heart by sending her a romantic gift basket. A popular basket consists of a beautiful gold chest filled with romantic candle gift set, frosted glass votive candle holder, sensual chocolate body paint, assorted chocolate, almond body butter massage lotion, and a Love and Romance book from the heart. She will be impressed with your elegant taste when you send her this romantic gift basket.

f. Romantic Massage Gift Basket:
A romantic massage will be treasured by your valentine. She will long remember the special treats in this lovely basket: massage oil, an acrylic massager, a massage booklet. chocolates, cookies, and a chocolate fondue kit to say I love you in good taste.

g. Spa Gift Baskets:
Spa gifts are designed especially for women. Rejuvenate someone special with a gift hamper full of relaxing spa products, including body butter, an enchanted CD of soft piano and string music, cucumber moisturizing body lotion, moisturizing body gel, terry cloth makeup and shower headband, vanilla herbal lemon tea, and terry cloth bath slippers to make her feel special. When the bath and body products are gone, she can use the handy hamper with lid for storage. Treat your sweetheart with this revitalizing gift.

h. Chocolate Bouquet:
This chocolate bouquet consists of 6 full size milk chocolate bars that create a "vase" while 20 fun size chocolates of assorted varieties make up a bouquet. This unique gift can be sent to chocolate lovers of all ages.

i. Valentines Gift Basket For Kids:
This children's basket is filled with fun activities and treats to eat. Your little valentine will find a teddy bear with heart patches, coloring book, candy filled potion bottle with mini message, bubbles, candy bracelet, 3 marshmallow cream heart, checkers game set, marshmallow heart peep, gummy treats, Hershey Kisses exchange bag, and candies.

j. Red Roses:
Fresh, stunning and fragrant red roses will sure delight your sweetheart. Send these roses by themselves or send them to accompany other gifts.

In summary, express your love to someone special with a Valentine gift. You can choose from Valentine gift basket, Valentine gift pail, gift tower, romantic gift basket, romantic massage gift basket, spa gift baskets, red roses, and Valentines basket for kids. Send Valentines day gift to your love, and show him or her how much you care this Valentines Day.

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How to Make a Girl Fall in Love With You in 5 Steps!

How to Make a Girl Fall in Love With You in 5 Steps!

By Sydney Downes

Love is one of those very delicate emotions; very hard to win yet easy to lose. What to know how to make a girl fall in love with you?... this question is asked by most men, especially once he's set eyes upon the girl he likes. It's not easy and it comes with hard 'work'. It's safe to say that ALL women are looking to find love, if they haven't already. So, how can you make that girl fall in love with you?...

1. Be her friend first: Wondering how to make a girl fall in love with you?....

One of the first steps is to become her friend, and you've got to do this FIRST, over and above anything else! It takes time to move from just being somebody to becoming her friend. Once you do this, and make sure you do, make it your priority to understand her. Do this naturally or else she might start to think you have an ulterior motive and end up putting her guards up which could result in her pushing you away!

You need to understand that, like any girl, she needs to be loved, cherished, adored and needed... So you need to make sure you do this but as a friend first, and nothing more. As your friendship grows, you will get to learn about what she likes and dislikes, her way of doing things, etc. This friendship will create a solid base for what you hope to achieve in the future. As you show your endearing personality throughout your friendship, subconsciously, you give her reason to create room for you in her heart. This is the first of how to make a girl fall in love with you

2. Make her feel special: Even though life is no fairy tale, every girl wants to be made to feel special. With that in mind, ensure you make her feel that way... be her "prince charming", whatever that means for her. This indeed is a killer step on how to make a girl fall in love with you... this, combined with the other steps in this article will put you on the right road towards love.

Let the time you spend together be phenomenal, make her feel comfortable around you, compliment her and show your appreciation for all she does, including those generous smiles she gives you, not to mention the happiness she has made you feel. Girls love to be showered with praise, so if you do this, trust me, she'll feel even closer to you.

Talking about your dreams and ambitions with her will make her feel important and that you trust her. Let her know she is always in your thoughts - first in the morning and last thing before you go to sleep. This, without doubt, will the firestarter for the magical things to come in the future, her heart will be singing your praises, uncontrollably... And that's just the way you want it to be! Think about it, any girl knowing that she is thought about even as one goes to bed will make her happy and give sweet blissful dreams, and it was ALL down to you, that's how to make a girl fall in love with you!

3. Communicate: Never forget to call her at least twice a day especially when she's not expecting it...

For example, call her at 1 am and give her your lovey-dovey reason for calling her... "I wanted to know how you are because I can't sleep not knowing!" That's another "How to make a girl fall in love with you" seed you've just planted... Remember, you reap what you sow!;-)

4. Respect: Are you still wondering how to make a girl fall in love with you?... Respect, respect, respect and more respect. Look, by this stage you should have, or be close too, going out on your first date... At every opportunity be respectful. For example, at the end of your date, be sure to take her right up to her door step and wish her a good night with just a handshake. Do not kiss her even if you feel she expects you to, unless during your friendship with her that's how you meet and greet. Let your gentleman manners be at their best. This will earn you respect for being patient.

5. Become attractive to her: No matter what country you come from, no matter what language you speak... Heck you have to do things in the right order! What do I mean?...

If you really want to know the number one true secret to how to make a girl fall in love with you, listen carefully...

To make a girl fall in love with you, she has to be attracted to you first...duh! That's obvious right?... I mean, come on, you wouldn't have sex with a girl just on meeting her without saying hello and finding out her name first, would you?... in fact don't answer that because some of you may have done this already...;-)

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I Love You-Will You be My Valentine?

"I love you"!

By Sanjeev Himachali

"I love you" is a "sweetest" one liner...we all likes to listen...not only once in a year but everyday. Though there should not be any particular occasion or time for one to express his or her love to any person whom they love...it should be often and regular, but how many of us really understand the meaning and importance of love. People across the globe...we all love to be loved by others...by our parents, by our friends and by that "Special" person of our life. Often we don't understand the importance of love...feelings and emotions. There is a misconception that your love for that special person starts from bedroom.

To start with...Why does one love? Is it to find an escape from the pains of loneliness or is it to feel the warmth of fulfillment that it brings to one's heart? To me, love is the essential of all being. One cannot exist without the love of another. To live for another makes a life complete in every way. Each beat of one's heart, each breath, each small thought signifies a Small part of a love that is shared with another.

Who does one love? Are two people destined to come together or is it by chance alone? Only one's heart can tell when love has come. It can feel the longing desire from its deepest point and it can feel the overpowering attraction when they are close. One loves whom his heart has chosen.

When does one love? Does one share their love in the soft mist of the early morning or in the crisp breeze of the darkening night? Those that are truly in love know no night or day, no dark or light. Love is a continuous thing.

So, if you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

And if you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage. Do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

And if you fall in love with someone, he/she falls in love with you and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time. Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.

Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them Rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN.

Why Valentines Day?

In the third century, the Roman Empire was ruled by Emperor Claudius II Gothicus. He was nicknamed Claudius the Cruel because of his harsh leadership and his tendency for getting into wars and abusing his people. In fact, he was getting into so many wars during the third century that he was having a difficult time recruiting enough soldiers.

Claudius believed that recruitment for the army was down because Roman men did not want to leave their loves or families behind, so he canceled all marriages and engagements in Rome. Thousands of couples saw their hopes of matrimony dashed by the single act of a tyrant. And no one seemed interested in standing up to the emperor.

But a simple Christian priest named Valentine did come forward and stood up for love. He began to secretly marry soldiers before they went off to war, despite the emperor's orders. In 269 AD Emperor Claudius found out about the secret ceremonies. He had Valentine thrown into prison and deemed that he would be put to death.

As Valentine was awaiting execution, he fell in love with a blind girl, who happened to be the jailers daughter. On the eve of his execution, with no writing instruments available, Valentine is said to have written her a sonnet in ink that he squeezed from violets. Legend has it that his words made the blind woman see again. It was a brief romance because the next day Valentine was clubbed to death by Roman executioners.

St. Valentine gave his life so that young couples could be bonded together in holy matrimony. They may have killed the man, but not his spirit. Even centuries after his death, the story of Valentine's self-sacrificing commitment to love was legendary in Rome. Eventually he was granted Sainthood and the Catholic Church decided to create a feast in his honor. They picked February 14 as the day of celebration because of the ancient belief that birds (particularly lovebirds, but also owls and doves) began to mate on that very day.

It's surprising to know that Valentine's Day is really founded on the concept of love in marriage. On This Valentine's Day, what are you doing to keep the love in your marriage burning? While giving a gift and card, having a candlelight dinner, and sharing special words of love are all important, the true spirit of Valentine's Day needs to last throughout the year.

So, on this Valentine's Day...I like to ask you...will you be my Valentine. I don't promise to you...stars and moon, I know that the life ahead is not going to be a bed of roses...but I promise that I will keep you happy. I will not give tears to your eyes. I will be true and faithful to you. I wish you to walk with me, in this journey of life...together...holding hands. I want to hug you tight...close to my heart...so that nothing can harm you. So, will you be my valentine...not for today...not for one year...but for my life...till the time I breathe my last.
I know that you think that I don't even mean a single word I say. But it's only words and words are all I have to take your heart away. This world has lost its glory let's start a brand new story now my love. (Words...BoyZone)

"I love you"...for what you are and as you are...with all that you have...with your past and present...with your good and bad qualities...with your strengths and weaknesses. For me "I love you" is not just a sentence...for me every "I love you" is a promise, a commitment to stand by the person you love- whatever the odds, whatever the outcome, whatever the cost. Every "I love you" is a pact. A sworn oath to stick by each other, to be there for each other, no matter what personal sacrifice is necessary, and no matter what Consequences may befall. Every "I love you" has nothing to do with touches, or kisses, or sweet nothings whispered in an attentive ear.? I love you" is more than all these things. It means loyalty and honor and trust without the expectation of the same in return.

Again, I know that you think that I don't even mean a single word I say. But it's only words and words are all I have to take your heart away. This world has lost its glory let's start a brand new story now my love. (Words...BoyZone)

Walk with me, the path of life,to explore every bend of the road. Enjoy with me the beauty of life,along its wonderful way. Find comfort with me, in each other's arms, when grief crosses our path. Find strength with me, in each other's strength, when despair lies in wait. Laugh with me, a single true laugh, to enlighten another's distress. Cry with me, a single true tear, to understand true happiness. Cherish with me, the wonders of life, as they need to be preserved. Rejoice with me, in the mysteries, of what is yet to be. Find peace with me, in each other's souls, when the world has gone insane. Find love with me, in each other's hearts, until this life has been fulfilled. And when the path comes to an end I hope we can say from within, we've known the beauty of true love, our love came from within.

I know that you still think that I don't even mean a single word I say. But it's only words and words are all I have to take your heart away. This world has lost its glory let's start a brand new story now my love. (Words...BoyZone)


It's only words and words are all I have to take your heart away. This world has lost its glory let's start a brand new story now my love. (Words...BoyZone)

With lots of love...and Care

Sanjeev Sharma
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Romantic Valentine's Day Gift Ideas for Him

Romantic Valentine's Day Gift Ideas for Him!

By Ronnie Mittag

Sometimes it hard to get unique romantic gifts for the men in our lives. They often don't appreciate the same things we do and so often we tend to go for OK gifts for them. We have found a list of romantic gift ideas for him that will blow his socks off. Add these items to your arsenal and you will have him as your willing slave the rest of the year - there is a reason they say that men are simple creatures.

Sexy gift baskets that has plenty for him and you. Men are most often more visual that we are so get as naughty as you dare. Edible body paint, sexy teddy and silk boxers. Don't forget to put in some love coupons that he can use later on. Throw in a sexy board game or pack of cards and he will think that he died and went to heaven.

Take some boudoir shots or 50′s style Pin-up Shots. Basically, be his pin-up doll. There is nothing as sexy as those 50′s style pin-ups. No need to be explicit but some good old-fashioned pin-up pictures are a great idea. For example, if you know that he used to love red-heads but you are a brunette, buy a red-headed wig, and work it in a way he'll never forget.
Another great idea is a sketch of the both of you for his desk at work. You can turn his most favorite photograph into an awesome sketch or print that will draw his eye from time to time.
Jewelry works for men too! Get him that wonderful timepiece, engraved with your special date, special phrase or the name of your special song. He'll appreciate the usefulness of the watch and remember you every time he looks at it. Get him a ring or cuff links also, either will do once you personalize it.

When you are choosing a gift for the special man in your life, just remember to ensure that the romantic gift fits his personality. If your man does not wear rings and you get him one, no matter how you personalize it, he will not appreciate it as much as you think he should.

You've spent hours and hours looking for the perfect gift idea for your honey - only for them to open up the box and.... NO REACTION. Or worse... they hate it. This doesn't have to be you! Our website is chock full of incredible   romantic gift ideas that'll keep a smile on his or her face from now until next week!" http://www.getromanticgiftideas.com

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How to Make a Girl Fall in Love - 4 Tips to Make Women Love You!

How to Make a Girl Fall in Love!

By Chris Tyler

How to make a girl fall in love is a question that men ask
themselves ALL of the time. Some guys want to learn new tricks
that they can use in hopes that they can make a woman fall in
love with them. Other men are looking for romantic ideas on how
to make a girl fall in love. Yet, most guys seem to end up with
the same experience in the end. It's not as easy as it looks or
sounds to make a women love you.

However, there are some things that a man can do in order to
make a girl fall in love. What you have to keep in mind is that
not every girl is going to react the same exact way. You cannot
get one magical line that is going to hook every woman that you
meet. You have to understand how to use a woman's desires as a
way to make her fall for you.

Here are 4 tips on how to make a girl fall in love that should
give you a fighting chance:

1. She has to see some social proof.

Social proof is a very powerful thing. Advertisers know this,
that's why they use celebrities to endorse their products. Well,
I know that you probably cannot go out and get a celebrity to
endorse you, but when you are able to make her see you with
other women, preferably pretty women, you can give yourself kind
of an implied endorsement that you are a desirable guy, even if
you are nothing more than just friends with these women.

2. She has to see confidence.

Typically, the guy that ends up getting rejected by a girl is
the one that has no confidence at all in himself when he is
around her or he tries to flirt with her. You have to develop
confidence and be confident around women. Otherwise, you have to
realize that you probably will not make the kind of impression
on a girl that you would like to make.

3. She has to have fun with you.

If you want to make a woman lose interest in you really quick,
just become really boring when you are around her. See, a woman
needs to have fun and feel good when she is with a guy if she is
going to want to stick around and fall in love with him.
Unfortunately, the nice guys also tend to be really boring when
they are around women and the woman loses any interest that she
might have had really quickly.

4. She has to feel SECURE with you.

This is one of the major reasons why alpha males always seem to
get the girls. A woman has to feel secure when she is with a guy
if she is going to fall in love and that love is going to last
and be REAL. The good thing is, you don't have to be a tough guy
to make a woman feel secure when she is with you. Just being
confident and giving off the impression that you are far from
insecure is usually more than enough to make her feel safe with
you.

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My First Love

My First Love

By Frincelyn Romero

Before I start telling you my story, I would like to tell you
that I believe in love at first sight. It happened to me and I
am sure it has happened to a lot of other people. 

One day, after finishing from work I went to catch the bus home
as I usually did. I sat down and opposite me there was this
incredible guy looking at me. Our eyes met and it was like our
souls joined. We couldn't stop looking at each other. I knew
deep down inside that he was the one for me. 

After a while, I got the giggles and he gave me the most
incredible smile. It took my breath away. I felt something I
have never felt in my life before-- what I believe to be true
love. For my whole trip home we kept on looking at each other. I
was a bit shy, so I kept looking away. When I got off the bus, I
felt this emptiness inside. As the bus drove past me, he looked
at me and smiled. It took my breath away and I felt that we were
destined to be together. When I got home, I couldn't stop
thinking about him. 

A week passed and I still remembered the way our eyes joined
and the incredible smile he gave me. I went to the same bus stop
praying I would see him again. No luck, he wasn't there. A week
later I got on to the bus sat down then after five minutes
someone came and sat next to me. When I looked, I realized that
it was him. We both smiled at each other like we were so happy
to see each other again. 

When we started to talk we became even more fascinated about
each other. He offered to take me to the theatre to see a play
and I said, "Yes, I would love to." 

It turned out perfectly, we both had a lot of fun and it seemed
we were soul mates. We kept on arranging to go out with each
other. After four months, we realized we were madly in love with
each other. He told me he came to that bus stop the next day
hoping he would see me again. We are now in love and happily
married with one beautiful child.

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frincelyn@yahoo.com im waiting of all your comments and
suggestions

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